So Brad totally talked about this in an interview, saying that Shiloh prefers to be addressed by all the family as John (and if anyone calls ze—I guess, I’m not sure if there are chosen gender pronouns yet, so I’m just going to use ze/zir—Shiloh, ze’ll be all “it’s JOHN OKAY?”) and prefers traditionally “masculine” things like swords and boy clothes etc., and he and Angelina don’t care because they a) recognize that not all children are the same/follow traditional gender binaries and b) they love John no matter what so it doesn’t matter to them what gender ze is. Which I thought was awesome/adorable.
I’m not nessesarily a big fan of Jolie, however I will say this: If my mother had done for me what she is doing for Shiloh/John it would have saved me a a childhood full of frustration, numbness and confusion. I would not now look back on 19 years worth of life and wish I had been able to LIVE IT. Instead, I spent 19 years pretending to be someone else. I can’t help but feel robbed. Why do we tell children who they are? HOW can we tell children who they are?
Parents, please, LISTEN to your kids. Embrace difference and know that you are raising your children right by allowing them to be themselves and loving them unconditionally.
yOU GO ANGELINA, YOU GO
Not a fan of either as actors but kudos to them as parents.
i fucking love the jolie-pitt family
i know that my path to recovery will be a strange struggle and i will grope for so much more than i need/want to right now, but good god damn it i have never wanted more to dissolve into smoke and wrap someone’s arms around me and sleep so long and so hard
me like ‘haha yeah i can DEFINITELY write a five page paper in two hours!! time is a construct, deadlines have no meaning and also i’m dead inside’
Opal Dream Ring in 14k Gold
[writes paper] this doesnt make any sense [prints it] [doesn’t proofread] [hands it in for a grade]
[gets a decent grade]
i planned out my new lush skincare ~regime and will be reading tom sawyer ALL DAY UNTIL I FREAKING FINISH IT and then I’M GUNNA WRITE ABOUT IT AND A BUNCH OF OTHER STUFF AND GET ALL CAUGHT UP and i have a BIG LIST of things i need to accomplish/pay/plan for tomorrow and i have two things do tomorrow but they will be easy to accomplish and i am WORKING MY WAY TO WHOLENESS and every time i take a moment and think back on it I CAN PUT MYSELF THERE i am feelin alright